When it comes to finding the perfect guy, many women are completely disillusioned. I was on Facebook yesterday and they were so many negative comments about men. It was clear to see that the women who had made the comments were hurting. Many of them were abandoned with children to raise alone with no help. It’s difficult not to become embittered, angry, and frustrated in that situation. Add to that, the shame, guilt, and worthlessness these women are made to feel from others who are judging them for being in their current situation.