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It’s something that has been instilled in me from a very young age without me even being aware of it.  For as far back as I can remember, I’ve been inundated with images of people meeting, falling in love, getting married, and living happily ever after.  These subliminal messages were everywhere: on TV, in movies, at family get-togethers, at school; the message being: you will not be happy until you find someone to cling to like a barnacle on a whale for the rest of your life.

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So, you’ve finally gotten  rid of the loser you’ve been dating.  And now he’s calling you and saying how he wants you back.  Read on to discover five tactics he may use to get you to take him back

Just to be clear, I’m referring to the guys who have demonstrated repeatedly that they do not value your time or attention and therefore are not worth wasting any more time on.  You guys know who I’m talking about: the one that has stood you up on countless occasions with no apology,

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It can definitely be hard to get over a breakup with someone that you’ve grown accustomed to having in your life. It feels as if they’ve become a part of you and it can be hard to imagine what you would do without that person in your life.

Read on for some tips on getting over your breakup with that ex-special person.

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When it comes to finding the perfect guy, many women are completely disillusioned.  I was on Facebook yesterday and they were so many negative comments about men.  It was clear to see that the women who had made the comments were hurting.  Many of them were abandoned with children to raise alone with no help.  It’s difficult not to become embittered, angry, and frustrated in that situation. Add to that, the shame, guilt, and worthlessness these women are made to feel from others who are judging them for being in their current situation.  

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Users, manipulators, liars, guilt-trippers, smooth talkers, and the emotionally unavailable – please stay far, far away from me!

I am so tired of my quiet, shy, trusting, naïve, and non-confrontational nature being used as a pass to walk all over me.  TIRED!

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Do you have a hard time finding the perfect gift for that special guy in your life?  Well, I definitely feel your pain.

My (sort of) boyfriend (sort of as in we used to date but broke up and now we act more like boyfriend and girlfriend than we did when we were together) is a very difficult person to shop for.  He has an easy time shopping for me, mostly because I’m so vocal about what I like: lingerie,

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“MY MISSION IN LIFE IS NOT MERELY TO SURVIVE, BUT TO THRIVE; AND TO DO SO WITH SOME PASSION, SOME COMPASSION, SOME HUMOR, AND SOME STYLE” – MAYA ANGELOU

 

About two years ago, I remember feeling really fed up with the way my life was going.  I felt as if I was a spectator in my own life, letting things happen instead of deciding what happened.  I felt like a stunted tree that for lack of some vital component,

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If a single mom has a young child that still depends fully upon her, is she still able to date?

Seeing someone once in a while is fine when you’re dating casually but what about when the casual becomes serious? 

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